May 10, 2014,
Three years ago today, I received an email that changed my
life forever. After waiting almost 2 years
we finally got a referral for a child.
(Now go back 2 weeks)Two weeks before this referral. I
started crocheting a pink blanket. Stephen
said what are you doing? I said – well you
never know – we could get a referral for a girl. I was smiling and had this “feeling” that
something was about to happen. He just
grinned and left the room. I really felt like God was telling me to be
prepared for a girl.
What was the referral for, you ask? A GIRL!
I had always thought I would be a mother to a girl.
It as another 7 months before we had her in our arms
forever, but it was worth it. She is the
BEST thing I ever did. You know how
sometimes you wonder what you are meant to do with your life. Well, I know what I was meant to do. I was meant to be Olesya’s mom. She was over 4000 miles away, but that was
where she was. I believe it was all God’s
plan for us to be together… for her to be ours.
Steve and I discussed adoption for a couple years before we
decided to take the leap of FAITH and on June 1, 2009 we signed the papers to
start the adoption process.
“The Adoption Process” is not for the faint as heart. It is a lot of work with TONS of paperwork,
lots of fingerprinting and doctor visits.
Emotionally and financially draining but worth it all! There’s nothing like seeing your child for
the first time. Holding her and opening
your heart to all the possibilities.
HOPING that it will all work out and that your dream of a family will
finally come true. That feeling of LOVE
from the first time you see the photo. The
leap of FAITH you take when you say “YES” we will go and meet her…. “YES” we want
to adopt her… “YES” to the court in Russia.
It was an adventure of a lifetime.
Keep in mind, while there is JOY in this adoption
process. There is also sadness. Sadness, that most likely she will never see
her birthmother, she may never know who her birth father is. She may never meet her other family members. This is really sad because she is the BEST
little girl and they are missing out on all the JOY and LOVE she gives to us all
every day. One day when she is much
older, I will tell her all I know of her story.
My girl turned 5 last month! She is so intelligent, caring, loving and
beautiful and I couldn’t imagine our lives without her. I thank GOD every day for blessing us with
this child.
