Wednesday, August 8, 2012

8 month update!

I am extremely happy to report that Olesya is doing well.
Better than we could have ever hoped.  With all the adjustments she has been through these past 8 months, we can't believe how well she has adapted.  Grandma have been watching her on Monday's Wednesday's and Friday's (with Aunt Mary filling in as needed) and on Tuesdays and Thursdays she has been going to daycare at the Betsey Mills Club for some socialization and fun time with kids her age. (while daddy and I work).

She actually loves daycare aka "school".  She tells me all kinds of stories.  She just jabbers all the time - I'm not sure where she gets it from (sarcasm)!

She has been speaking really well and doesn't seem to be having any trouble keeping up.  She is in the "why" stage right now... so everything is why, why, why......because mommy says so - now she has me sounding like my mother! 

I haven't gotten any bad reports from daycare yet (knock on wood).  But they also know her history so maybe they have been taking that into consideration as well.  I don't want to use her past as a crutch or an explanation for her behavior forever, but for the time being it does need to be considered.

She sings her ABC's and Twinkle Twinkle and Ring around the Rosey -- they aren't perfect by no means, but she is getting there... I'll have to post a video of her singing one day soon.

Steve is now being called "daddy" and I'm mom or mommy... I think Steve is going to miss her calling him PaPa - but it is all for the best.

Our friends go back next month to get their twins.  Their court date 7/26/12 was a success, however it was an all day event... and almost ran over to 2 days... (ridiculous!)  How absurd!  The children are waiting and the courts think that they need more than a day to decide what is best for them?  what?  it isn't best for them to grow up in an orphanage!  that is for sure!  omg - I could rant on forever about this... but that is all I'm going to say for now...So Russian adoptions need to stay out of the news for awhile - at least until they get their babies home.  the twins will be 3 in September....!  We, of course, want to go visit with them in Long Island sometime so the children can play together again.

We are going to Steve's grandma's 90th birthday party on Saturday.  We are excited for her to see Olesya again.  She hasn't seen her since April. 

Olesya grew over 6 inches in 6 months - I haven't measured her lately.. but she seems longer everyday... I told her to stop growing the other morning and she told me "but I want to grow mommy" and I told her to just go right ahead then!  She's only gained about 1 1/2 lbs though... We are feeding her...she is just going to be a tiny girl... that's all.

We tried gymnastics last month, but her attention span is not ready for this yet.  I was totally embarrassed - she was running all around the place - not listening - being really bad... if I could have crawled under the bench - I would have!   We thought we'd wait another couple months before we try it again (maybe daycare will help her learn to follow instructions better).  I don't think she got a nap that day either - so it was a really long day for her.

She has been taking swimming lessons at the Betsey -so far she can blow bubbles and kick her legs... well she could do that to begin with -- so I'm not sure what she is learning....I might have to try something else.  I'm not really happy that she hasn't progressed and the teacher has cut the 40 minutes back to 30 minutes.. so we aren't getting what we paid for... I spoke up last Sunday and might have made the life guard upset with me... but I am upset with her.. I paid for 40 minutes... I want 40 minutes ... not 30! 


Here is a picture from Cedar Point - it was my company's picnic day!  She had fun "riding the horsey"!


Here we are at the indoor waterpark in Columbus... She was tired and ready for bed!  See she is holding her "bubby".  This is a stuffed dog that her cousin, Christina gave her for Christmas.... She thinks she needs it all the time.  She loved the waterpark and didn't want to leave.  Now she thinks every hotel has a waterpark!  She says - stay at hotel -go swimming... all the time!  LOL


This is from the 4th - she was looking back at me.... she is so adorable - even when she isn't smiling!


This picture shows just how rotten she is!  The orneriness just oozes!  LOL


Here she is from the Zoo in Cincinnati - The elephant had just made the triumphant sound and it startled her.  I just love the sparkle in her eyes in this one!

Well I'll stop with the pictures.. but I just had to share some of my favorites!

We have been taking her lots of places and she has been having a great time.

This month we have Steve's company picnic at Camden Park in Charleston, WV and then we leave on 8/31/12 for a week vacation at the Outer Banks, NC... we can't wait for her to see all the sand and water at the beach!  It should be a fun time for us all!  I am not, however, looking forward to the 10-12 hour drive... we think we are leaving around midnight.. that way she will sleep most of the way.

Family portraits are scheduled for October... can't wait to finally get some nice photos of us all together!

More adventures to come.

Love to all!
The Lewis's